Marbles for Miracles

November 15, 2006

Volume 1, Number 2

In This Issue

·    Diagnosed: Now to Start Developing a plan

·    Sibling issues

·    Holiday Nutrition

·    Readers Recipe – From Tina Persels

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Diagnosed: How to Start Developing a Plan

With a sea of information, so many different treatments and no magic bullet cure all, what do you do to get your child on the road to recovery? These are suggestions from the DAN! (Defeat Autism Now!) Conference held in Seattle in October.

  • Tune into your priorities – Keep in mind that if it causes additional stress to your family you may not see the full benefits.
  • Make a budget – Make a plan: With so many options and opinions out there it is easy to get wrapped up and spend A LOT of money. Remember if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.
  • Use as much of your insurance as possible: Most insurance companies will cover speech, occupational, physical and massage therapies, or some portion of the cost.
  • Get and stay educated: Attend conferences & workshops. Talk to other parents about what they are doing.
  • Don’t be afraid to speak your mind or stand your ground: You are the expert on your child and you are your child’s advocate. Follow your heart, mind and gut.
  • Be the super parent: You CAN do it!
  • Take time out for yourself: As parents we become so involved with our family and their needs that we often overlook ourselves. Take 5 minutes of everyday for YOU. 

Holiday Nutrition

As adults we struggle with holiday pounds. All the goodies and treats make the season a challenge for most. So with children who already face diet challenges and digestion issues, how can we adapt holiday recipes and traditions? If you have begun a special diet, take your child’s foods with you to friends’ and relatives’ houses. Now is also a good time to visit your local grocery or health food specialty store and see what organic produce is available. Keep the sweets to a minimum. Take them to work and share them with co-workers, and get them out of the house. Avoid prepackaged ready to eat foods. Read ingredients and if you can’t pronounce it or if it takes more than a few seconds to read because it has a lot of ingredients, don’t buy it. More on nutrition to come in the December newsletter, before Christmas.  

Sibling Issues

Ideas to help siblings cope.

Take time for your other children. Easier said than done, but it is imperative that the typical children do not get overlooked while focusing on the special needs child. Some siblings begin to act out, misbehave, or have regressive type behavior in order to get attention. It is hard to understand why children act out for negative attention, but realize negative attention is better than no attention.  

  • Take the sibling with you to the grocery store or to run other errands for some one on one time.
  • Allow your child to stay up 10 minutes later so you can read a book together.
  • Plan one night a week for the child to plan and prepare dinner with you being the special helper.
  • Develop a date night. It can be as simple as spending the night in their room watching a movie of their choice, going to a movie, ice cream or out to dinner.
  • Avoid giving children too much responsibility. Some children develop resentment because we set our expectations too high.
  • Find a sibling group. The Carmen B. Pingree School offers groups for different age children, where only the typical siblings can go interact with each other and get a feeling of belonging.

Remember families without the challenges of special needs experience sibling rivalry as well; we just need to make each child feel special and unique.

Reader’s Recipe

Adam Persels enjoying his bike

 For more information on the SCD diet, check out the book Breaking the Vicious Cycle-Intestinal Health Through Diet by Elaine Gottchall.

This recipe comes from Tina Persels. Her son Adam was diagnosed with Autism at age 4. Adam lives with multiple diagnoses, including Cerebral Palsy and Hydrocephalus due to a complicated premature birth. Tina has implemented the Specific Carbohydrate Diet (SCD) with Adam and in 3 months has seen positive changes in his skin, hair and digestion.

 

Monster Cookies

5 cups nut flour

1 cup raisins   

1 cup walnuts   

1cup flaked unsweetened coconut

1/2 cup melted butter

1 cup honey

2 eggs, beaten

1 tsp. baking soda

1/8 tsp. salt

 

Mix all ingredients.

Drop by large tablespoonfuls onto a greased cookie sheet. Press flat with a buttered fork. Bake at 325 F. (160 C) until golden brown (15-20 minutes).